Dvir Delouya was born and raised in the Negev city of Be’er Sheva, a place he continues to call home. He spent his formative years at Rabin High School, where he built the foundation for his educational and personal development. After completing his military service, he pursued studies in education at Hemdat HaDarom College, an institution known for combining academic excellence with traditional values.
Today, Dvir leads a groundbreaking initiative, the Bar Mitzvah Academy. This innovative institution, the first of its kind in Israel, offers comprehensive preparation for boys approaching their Bar Mitzvah—a pivotal moment in their lives. The academy seamlessly integrates ancient Jewish traditions with modern educational methodologies, providing each boy with a profound and meaningful experience as they transition into the Jewish adult community.
Goals of the Bar Mitzvah Academy
- Torah Reading Mastery: Teaching precise, beautiful reading while preserving traditional cantillation and halachic rules.
- Building Confidence: Strengthening self-esteem and emphasizing personal growth.
- Public Speaking Skills: Training in voice control, body language, and managing stage fright.
- Connecting to Tradition: Deepening the learner’s connection to Judaism and heritage.
- Future Educators: Mentoring exceptional students to pass on traditions.
“I would like to recommend the teacher Dvir Daluya, the person every child with special needs should meet during their Bar Mitzvah.
Additionally, Dvir took care of the musicians, photographers, catering, and a royal-style hospitality.
I thank the Creator of the Universe for meeting teacher Dvir. Thank you very much.”
Lesson Structure
The program spans four months with weekly 30-minute sessions, adaptable as the ceremony approaches. Lessons include guided instruction, group sessions, and independent study, fostering both learning and confidence.
Key Learning Phases
- First Meeting: Focus on reading techniques, using a relaxed approach to build comfort. Tailored methods address reading difficulties.
- Text Meaning: Instruction varies by motivation and ability, offering basic comprehension for most and in-depth analysis for advanced students.
- Cantillation (Tropes): Advanced training for extensive readings; simpler methods for shorter ones.
- Haftarah: Prioritized for capable students with transferable skills from Torah reading preparation.
Public Presentation and Simulation
Students transition from private lessons to public practice, including synagogue simulations to build confidence and readiness. A mentor accompanies them during the ceremony for reassurance.
Vision for the Future
The academy aims to expand nationwide, offering meaningful Bar Mitzvah preparation to all boys, including those with special needs. By training graduates as future teachers, the academy ensures the tradition is carried forward.
The 13 Commandments for Life
- Be happy with what you have.
- Willpower can overcome anything.
- Public shame equals harm.
- Strive to be a person of integrity.
- Beginnings are always hard.
- Silence guards wisdom.
- It’s better to follow the strong than to lead the weak.
- Treat others as you want to be treated.
- Proper conduct complements Torah, and Torah inspires proper conduct.
- All Jews are responsible for one another.
- Not all that glitters is gold.
- Respecting others reflects self-respect.
- Avoid judging others without understanding their circumstances.
Q&A
How is the Bar Mitzvah date determined?
The Bar Mitzvah/Torah reading date is set according to the boy’s Hebrew birthdate. For example, if a boy was born on the 10th of Tammuz, and that date falls on a Sunday, his Torah reading might be on the following Monday.
If a boy born on Tuesday reaches Bar Mitzvah age, can he have his Torah reading on Monday or Thursday?
Yes, he can read on either day since both share the same weekly Torah portion.
What if Dvir is unavailable on the Bar Mitzvah day?
No child will be left alone. If Dvir is unavailable, another academy instructor will accompany the boy, or the date may be adjusted.
When should the Tefillin be purchased?
It’s recommended to buy Tefillin at least 4–5 months in advance to allow time for preparation.
Can a Torah reading occur outside a synagogue?
Yes, as long as a quorum (minyan) of ten Jewish adults is present, Torah readings can take place in private homes, event halls, restaurants, or other suitable locations. Proper decorum and sanctity must be maintained.